How Masturbating, Breathing, And 23 Other Stupidly Simple Habits Can Make You The Healthiest You've Ever Been

We asked 25 top health and wellness experts to spill the one thing thatíll get you there



How Masturbating, Breathing, And 23 Other Stupidly Simple Habits Can Make You The Healthiest You've Ever Been
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You know the basics of what you need to do to help your health: Eat right, get moving, and stop smoking. Those are the majors, but as any guy who lifts to build muscle knows, the accessory work is pretty damn important, too.
 

Just like how you need to give your smaller muscles some love if you want to build a truly impressive physique, you have to pay attention to the little stuff if you want to become the healthiest man you can be. The good news is, tons of these health accessory work is super easy to implement. The harder part? It can be difficult to know what you really need to focus on.
 

So we’ve taken the guesswork out of it for you. We’ve picked the brains of 25 of the top doctors, nutritionists, sex therapists, and other wellness experts out there to determine the single best thing you can do to help your health. We’re not talking large, overarching life changes - these are the simple, small stuff you can get started on right now.
 

Take a read through the list, and pick out the ones you want to try. Your body and mind will thank you.
 

MAKE TIME FOR MASTURBATION

Take your health into your own hands. When your stress levels peak, masturbation can help you unwind, says relationship therapist Paul Hokemeyer, Ph.D. That’s because reaching orgasm will release a whole slew of feel-good hormones, like oxytocin and prolactin, which leave you with that calm, sleepy feeling you typically experience after climax. 
 

“Too often we forget that our bodies are incredible machines that can provide us with all sorts of wonderful coping and performance mechanisms,” says Hokemeyer.
 

And while it works wonders for your mood, masturbating can also help prevent prostate cancer, the third leading cause of cancer death in men. In fact, men between the ages of 20 to 29 who ejaculated 21 times or more each month are 19 percent less likely to be diagnosed with prostate cancer than those who ejaculated less often, according to research from Boston University.
 

SPOT THE UGLY DUCKLING ON YOUR SKIN

Melanoma isn’t the most common kind of skin cancer, but it’s responsible for the greatest number of deaths. 
 

You can increase your chances of beating the cancer by catching it early. Normal moles can grow and change, but they usually do so symmetrically and very slowly over the course of years, says Saira J. George, M.D., an assistant professor of dermatology at the University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center.
 

Any mole that is changing in size, shape, or colour within weeks or months warrants special attention. But pay extra special attention if the mole in question is an “ugly duckling” that looks different from the rest of your other moles. 
 

MIND YOUR BREATH

“For the first 10 minutes of your next workout, commit to breathing solely through your nose,” suggests Nathan Helming, head coach and co-founder of The Run Experience. “The reduced airway passage will force you to breathe more deeply to fully engage your diaphragm for more powerful and relaxed belly breathing. It works if you’re going on a run, taking a spin, or even lifting weights on your own.” 
 

After you practice this for the first time, you’ll quickly realise how often you tense up and hold your breath in your chest, neck, and shoulders. This type of tension can actually lead to greater stress levels, poorer performance, and even side-stitches and cramps, explains Helming.
 

PERFORM A DAILY TICK CHECK

Do a tick check daily, paying extra close attention to anything below the belt that’s about the size and color of a poppy seed, says Thomas Mather, Ph.D., director of the TickEncounter Resource Center at the University of Rhode Island. That can be a nymph-stage tick, which can be loaded with disease-causing germs, like the bacteria that cause Lyme disease. These ticks typically latch on at shoe level and crawl up, until they get "stuck" where underwear or skin folds restrict their further ascent.
 

So when you’re sitting on the throne each day, check your scrotum and penis for any spots that fit the bill. And if you do see one, remove it with a tweezers. Despite what you may have heard about a lit match getting rid of the buggers, it’s never a good idea to touch a hot object to a tiny tick attached to your scrotum.
 

CHECK OUT YOUR CHEST

Men can also get breast cancer - about 2,500 cases will be diagnosed in the U.S. this year, says Sharon Giordano, M.D., M.P.H., chair of the department of health services research at the University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center. If you develop any symptoms like a lump under your nipple or bleeding from your nipple, head to your doctor for further evaluation, as these can be signs of breast cancer in guys. Your doctor may order a mammogram, ultrasound, or biopsy to check for cancer.
 

HAVE ‘THE TALK’

Four out of every five men don’t talk to others about their sexual health - or any health issue, for that matter, a survey from Orlando Health found. That’s a problem, since knowing where you stand health-wise can help ensure your equipment works years down the line, says Jamin Brahmbhatt, M.D., a urologist at Orlando Health. 
 

So talk with your partner about STI history, and your family about any health risks that may affect you, like high blood pressure, obesity, or diabetes. All those conditions can lead to problems with erections down the road, so if you know you’re at genetic risk of them now, you can be on the lookout for signs and symptoms that might be signalling them. That means you may be able to start medical treatment - and lifestyle changes - as soon as possible. And that can help prevent problems with your penis before they start.
 

CALM YOUR MIND

Stress is a culprit behind six of today’s leading causes of death, says Marlynn Wei, M.D., a New York City psychiatrist & author of The Harvard Medical School Guide to Yoga. But as little as five minutes of mindfulness a day can tamp down stress and improve your health.
 

“Pick a regular time that works best for you - in the morning or before bed - and make your practice part of your normal routine,” she says.
 

Try evenly paced yoga breathing, guided audio meditation, or a few yoga poses. Or just take a few minutes every morning to set an intention for the day. “Regular, consistent practice is key - and it will become easier over time,” she says.
 

GET YOUR HEART PUMPING

"Exercise at least 30 to 40 minutes a day most days of the week," says Prediman K. Shah, M.D., M.A.C.C., director of the Oppenheimer Atherosclerosis Research Center and Atherosclerosis Prevention and Treatment Center at the Cedars Sinai Heart Institute. He recommends cardio most days a week and weights twice a week. 
 

PROTECT YOUR PEARLY WHITES

The number one thing you can do for your teeth is obvious: Brush twice a day for two minutes with fluoride toothpaste, every dentist ever is obligated to tell you. But this year, you should also be wary of a common tooth saboteur: Sports drinks. They stain teeth and erode enamel, studies show.
 

If you use them, “drink the clear sports drinks,” says Mark S. Wolff, D.D.S., Ph.D., chair of the department of cariology and comprehensive care at the New York University College of Dentistry. That can help alleviate stain risk.
 

FILL UP ON FIBRE

The average guy consumes less than half the recommended 30 to 38 grams of fibre per day, and that’s a problem.
 

“One of the most unsung heroes of a healthy diet is dietary fibre,” says Akash Goel, M.D., a gastroenterologist at New York Presbyterian Hospital.
 

Fibre helps you keep your cholesterol and blood sugar levels under control and protects you from heart disease, diabetes, and obesity. Dr. Goel recommends adding more greens, beans, and seeds your diet. His favourites are mustard and collard greens, split peas and lentils, and chia or flax seeds. When you shop for groceries, calculate the carb:fibre ratio, or the grams of carbs dividing by the grams of fibre.
 

“Your benchmark number should be 10:1, which is the natural carb:fibre ratio in unprocessed wheat, a true whole grain,” he says. If the ratio is 5:1 or lower, even better. 
 

THINK LIKE A DAD

A paternal instinct could be good for you. “Run every decision about your own 'health' through this filter: will it help my kids have the best possible future?” says David Katz, M.D., M.P.H., director of the Yale University Prevention Research Center. This strategy works because it covers everything.
 

“For our kids to thrive, we need to be kind. For them to care about nutrition, exercise, sleep, managing stress, avoiding toxins like tobacco - we need to show them we care. For them to have the planet they deserve - vital, vibrant, sustainable - we need to care about that now, and show it.” All these things will benefit the next generation - and you.
 

TAKE YOUR LEAVE DAYS

And don’t spend the whole time checking work email. “Vacations improve sleep, boost creativity, reduce inflammation and stress, enhance immunity, and help you reconnect with your closest friends and family, which in turn creates a positive cascade,” says Murali Doraiswamy, M.D., a professor of psychiatry and behavioural sciences at Duke University. “There is no drug invented that can positively transform every tissue in your body as dramatically as a vacation can.”
 

Take a long vacation in the summer but sprinkle short ones throughout the year as well to sustain benefits.
 

MAKE MINOR GOALS TO HIT YOUR MAJOR ONES

Setting big, overarching fitness goals is great, but sometimes they can seem daunting. So here’s what to do, suggests trainer Tony Gentilcore, C.S.C.S., owner of CORE in Boston, Mass. Pick two or three “process goals,” or small, more manageable goals that will help you work towards your main one.
 

For instance, say you want to squat twice your bodyweight. Instead of focusing solely on the sets, reps, and load that will help you get there, make supplementary goals to work on it from another angle. These could be ones like hitting the gym at least three times a week or setting aside seven to eight hours for quality sleep each night.
 

Write your goals on a calendar and tack it up on the fridge, checking off each day you complete it. Shoot for 90 percent compliance by the end of the week.
 

PREP YOUR MEALS

A 2012 study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology found that you spend up to 4 hours a day resisting temptations and desires. The number one desire is food, says Men’s Health nutrition advisor Mike Roussell, Ph.D.
 

“I have noticed that clients get themselves into trouble with their diets when they wait until the last minute to decide what they are going to eat, as they succumb to whatever desire or urge they are having at the moment,” says Roussell.
 

Planning when and what you are going to eat prevents you from succumbing to cravings, so prepare your meals ahead of time whenever possible, he suggests. 
 

When it isn’t possible, map out what you are going to eat and where, says Roussell. For example, if you’re going out to eat, take a look at the menu before you go, so you can take a glance at your options and commit to a healthier choice before you’re tempted by that fried chicken sandwich. 
 

HAVE LOTS OF SEX

Getting it on is good for you:study published in the British Medical Journal found that men who had orgasms twice a week had half the risk of dying - even when the researchers took general health and fitness into account, says sex researcher Robin Milhausen, a professor of family relations and human sexuality at the Univeristy of Guelph in Canada. In fact, having sex three or more times a week might cut your risk for heart attack and stroke by half, a follow up study indicated.
 

But there are other benefits to having sex, she says, like improving your mental well being and boosting intimacy between you and your partner. Don’t assume you have to do it every night to notice the mental difference, either. Couples who do the deed more than once a week aren’t any happier that those who have weekly, suggests Canadian research.
 

GO BACK TO THE BASICS

“Each day, aim to eat about 6 to 8 palm-sized portions of protein-rich food and 6 to 8 fist-sized portions of vegetables. Protein and vegetables are the two most important food groups to help you reach your body composition and health goals,” says Brian St. Pierre, M.S., R.D., C.S.C.S., director of performance nutrition at Precision Nutrition.
 

Loading up on protein helps keep your hunger at bay, meaning you’ll feel fuller for longer. Plus, protein revs your metabolism and helps you build and preserve hard muscle. As for vegetables? They’re nutrient powerhouses - loaded with filling fibre and water, vitamins, minerals, and health-promoting phytonutrients, he says.
 

MAKE YOUR CAR A SUN SHIELD

Install UVA/UVB clear coating on your car windows. It protects your eyes and skin from DNA damage that can lead to eye disease, skin cancer and premature aging, says Kimberly Cockerham, M.D., F.A.C.S., a surgeon in Plastics-Orbit-Neuro-Ophthalmology at Center Valley Eye. This doesn't replace sunscreen, "but rather enhances its efficacy,” she says.
 

WALK YOUR WAY TO WEIGHT LOSS

If you’re looking to shed kilos, but have no idea how to start, try going for a 30 to 60 minute walk after one of your meals, suggests obesity specialist Spencer Nadolsky, D.O. If you have issues starting a workout routine, whether it’s physically out of reach or you haven’t found the motivation, walking won’t seem as daunting of a task.
 

“Going for a walk after a meal will not only help with your weight, but it will keep your blood sugars down, too. Plus, if you have a significant other it’s a great time to spend with them,” says Dr. Nadolsky.
 

Not only that, but research suggests that walking can minimise your cravings, help you sleep better, and even help you de-stress. While it doesn’t seem like you’re working your body hard, you’ll burn more calories walking than you would sitting on the coach, tempted by that post-dinner dessert. And who knows, maybe those walks will eventually turn into runs?
 

GET VACCINATED AGAINST CANCER

Rates of cancers affecting the tonsils, base of the tongue, and throat are rising - and the increase is due in large part to oral strains of human papilloma virus (HPV) that affect the mouth. The good news is, the HPV vaccine can help protect against these cancers if it’s given early enough, says Eric Sturgis, M.D., M.P.H., a professor in the department of head and neck surgery at the University of Texas MD Anderson Cancer Center. Kids should get a two-dose regimen of it before their 13th birthday, but if you missed out back then, you can reduce your risk of HPV-associated cancers through a three-dose catch-up series up until age 26.
 

EAT YOUR GREENS

Aim to eat at least one serving of leafy greens, like kale and spinach, at every meal, says Keri Glassman, M.S., R.D., C.D.N. Green vegetables offer a powerful dose of fibre, vitamins, and minerals, including antioxidants and phytochemicals which have been shown to prevent heart disease and may help reduce the risk of cancer.
 

Experts believe that the carotenoids in leafy greens act as antioxidants, slowing the damage that free radicals cause our bodies, before they can do harm, says Glassman. Add variety to your diet or your go-to spinach salad by roasting hearty green veggies like broccoli rabe, or blending beet greens into your smoothie.
 

GIVE YOURSELF A BREAK

If you want to take care of your mind, try being nicer to yourself.
 

“None of us are perfect, yet we often act as if we should be. We tend to give our friends a lot of leeway when they make mistakes, but we are often very harsh with ourselves,” says Fred Rabinowitz, Ph.D., a professor of psychology at California’s University of Redlands. “By beating yourself up, not only do you feel bad, but you also add extra pressure on yourself to not mess up, which interferes with performance.”
 

So, what’s a guy to do? Treat yourself like you would a friend, says Rabinowitz. Give yourself a break so you have the energy to do better, rather than carry around the baggage of being angry with yourself.
 

The best way to do that is by being just as compassionate with yourself as you would be with your best buddy. Either out loud or mentally, give yourself a pep talk as if you were talking to him. Try something like “You made a mistake, but you’re okay. You will fix it and move on.” Or, “Everyone makes mistakes. You didn’t intend to have it go this way. Learn from it and move on.”
 

EAT A HANDFUL OF WALNUTS

“Incorporating small snacks between meals will help increase your energy, keep your hunger at bay, and adds to your daily nutrient intake,” says certified exercise physiologist Jim White, R.D.N., owner of Jim White Fitness Studios.
 

Focus on 100 to 200 calories with a mix of protein, carbohydrates, and healthy fats at least 2 to 3 times per day, he says. Choose something like walnuts, which boast 4 grams of protein, two grams of fibre, and the highest amount of plant-based omega-3 fatty acids over any other nut, in just one ounce.
 

“Pair them with nonfat Greek yoghurt or eat all on their own, you’ll be getting a snack packed with optimal nutrients,” says White.
 

PUT A DAILY ‘CHECK-IN’ ON YOUR CALENDAR

Talking to your partner can help ward off the stresses of everyday life, says sex researcher and relationship therapist Sarah Hunter Murray, Ph.D.
 

“When our romantic relationship is running smoothly, it acts as a buffer that helps weather the storm of other stresses we might be facing in our lives. But if we’re feeling stressed in our relationship, it’s going to have the opposite effect,” she explains. “To help keep stress low in your relationship, the best thing to do is talk often and openly.”
 

So make time every day to check in with your partner. While you don’t want to bring up every gripe and grievance you have with her, your feelings can crop up in less healthy ways if they aren’t properly addressed, so it’s important to share the harder things that are bothering you, too.
 

Feeling your partner “jokingly” put you down in front of your friends or seeing her put work ahead of spending time with you can manifest as bad eating habits, drinking, or zoning out in front of the TV instead of going to the gym, says Murray. But when you address your issues head on, you’ll feel lighter - and that reduced stress helps in all areas of your well-being.
 

ROLL UP YOUR SLEEVES

Even if you’re a healthy guy, there’s one shot you need to get each year: the flu vaccine, says board-certified infectious disease specialist Brent W. Laartz, M.D., author of How to Avoid Contagious Diseases. Thousands of deaths in the U.S. could prevented in the U.S. each year if everyone got the shot, he says. (If you’re over 65, have a chronic illness, or smoke, you want to get the pneumonia vaccine, too).
 

And when you make your appointment for the flu shot, schedule it for the morning. Research from the University of Birmingham in the U.K. found that people had twice the number of flu antibodies - proteins that your body produces to fight off infection - after receiving the shot between 9 a.m. and 11 a.m. than those who got it between 3 p.m. and 5 p.m. did.
 

STOP PAIN FAST

To protect against developing chronic pain, there are three things to keep in mind, says Paul J. Christo, M.D., an associate professor at Johns Hopkins Medicine and author of the upcoming book Aches and Gains: A Comprehensive Guide to Overcoming Your Pain. First, don’t wait it out. If you’re in any kind of pain, seek treatment fast. The more you wait, the more difficult it can be to treat. Secondly, reach out for help, whether it is a specialist or a support group. Finally, be open to traditional, integrative, and innovative pain therapy options out there.

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